My name really is Paulo Murillo. Yup, I'm that guy. I am me. A person. And not just some thing. I enjoy people, but only from a safe distance. I can people-watch for hours. I like to arm myself with disarming questions. I believe you should always put your best face forward and let you take it from there. I believe the moment that you stop growing is the moment that you start dying. I believe that you believe there's more to life than this physical being and that belief kinda/sorta gives me hope. I'm smarter than I'd like you to see me, yet dumber than I like to see myself. I've been told that I have a contagious laugh. It's balls out and kinda dorky. My humor tends to be dark. I know how to have fun and I'm not afraid to cry. I fancy myself loyal, fair and adaptable, but I don't want to fit in; I WANT TO STAND OUT!!! I'm a Virgo, so things have to match. I like order, but my room can be chaotic. I try to make the best out of any situation. And I've been in some royally sticky stitches. I've had lots of moments of joy, sorrow, laughter, love, wreckage, determination, loss, and I've overcome all shades of nasty speed bumps. These moments, be they good or bad, always come…then they go. And I learn. I swear I'm a good guy. I just did a lot of bad things to get by. I'm here to connect with people, if only to exchange a simple hello across the world. If you want to get to know me better, read my blogs. I write them because I enjoy writing. And so it goes. "Be good. Or be good at it." Luv, Me